Man-to-Man
David and Jonathan shared a rare friendship, a valuable bond that models how men today can engage in meaningful friendships with other men. The companionship David and Jonathan enjoyed was founded on trust and loyalty so deep that Jonathan, a child of royal privilege, risked much to maintain his friendship with David, a rural shepherd boy who was considered a threat to the royal family. As the two young men became friends, they formalized their commitment to each other with a pledge they honored even when their relationship was severely tested (1 Sam. 18:1–4; 20:1–4).
Many men have numerous acquaintances but few friends, often leaving them feeling isolated and lonely. Even a man who enjoys a healthy marriage can feel misunderstood if no one knows his soul man-to-man, just as women also crave companionship with fellow women. And once a true friend is found, men need not be afraid to enter into a friendship of profound trust and loyalty. A friendship like this is worth any sacrifice.
Taken from The Modern Life Study Bible
“When the lad was gone, David rose from the south side and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed three times. And they kissed each other and wept together, but David wept the more.”
1 Samuel 20:41
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