NIV 365 / Taking Your Advice

The NIV 365-Day Devotional Reading Plan

Day 158 of 365 Taking Your Advice Advice for every aspect of life abounds. Not all of it is good or even makes sense. For example, baseball legend Yogi Berra once said, "When you get to a fork in the road, take it." Huh? In 1998, Marriage Partnership magazine offered some practical advice for married couples: *Don't hog the blanket. *Husbands, think twice before complimenting your wife's best friend on her new hairstyle. *Wives, decide not to describe, in excruciating detail, every plot twist in your day. *Stop fiddling with the thermostat. *If you get up first, don't sing in the shower. *Don't leave nail clippings anyplace but in the wastebasket. The problem with good advice is that sometimes we don't take it. That was the case with Pontius Pilate, Judea's Roman governor, as Jesus stood before him, waiting for judgment. Pilate had the authority to set Jesus free, and he knew the charges against the Jewish rabbi were bogus. However, the crowd clamored for blood, and Pilate feared their reaction if his judgment went against their desires. If anyone needed advice, it was Pilate. Enter Mrs. Pilate. While Pilate sat on the judge's seat, his wife sent him a message: "Don't have anything to do with that innocent man, for I have suffered a great deal today in a dream because of him" (Matthew 27:19). But Pilate didn't heed his wife's advice. In a display of supreme indecision, Pilate let the crowd decide Jesus' fate. When people clamored for Jesus' death, Pilate washed his hands, symbolizing his own innocence in the matter. The Bible doesn't say much about Mrs. Pilate, her dream, or the reason why Pilate disregarded her advice and let the crowd decide Jesus' fate. Even so, God used Pilate's cowardice as part of his plan to bring about Christ's death on the cross, which provided the only means of our salvation. Giving and taking advice has its merits and dangers. In marriage, it's wise to listen to a partner's advice but wiser still to test it against Scripture. Is there a Biblical principle for or against what's being proposed? Are there examples from Scripture that are helpful? Besides holding advice up to Scripture, praying through a matter can give spiritual insight to a decision. If we bring our decisions to God in prayer-as a couple and as individuals-we can be sure God will guide us and provide us with the tools we need to make good decisions. -Nancy Kennedy Taken from NIV Couples' Devotional Bible Matthew 27:17-26 Matthew 27:17-26 KJV 17 Therefore when they were gathered together, Pilate said unto them, Whom will ye that I release unto you? Barabbas, or Jesus which is called Christ? 18 For he knew that for envy they had delivered him. 19 When he was set down on the judgment seat, his wife sent unto him, saying, Have thou nothing to do with that just man: for I have suffered many things this day in a dream because of him. 20 But the chief priests and elders persuaded the multitude that they should ask Barabbas, and destroy Jesus. 21 The governor answered and said unto them, Whether of the twain will ye that I release unto you? They said, Barabbas. 22 Pilate saith unto them, What shall I do then with Jesus which is called Christ? They all say unto him, Let him be crucified. 23 And the governor said, Why, what evil hath he done? But they cried out the more, saying, Let him be crucified. 24 When Pilate saw that he could prevail nothing, but that rather a tumult was made, he took water, and washed his hands before the multitude, saying, I am innocent of the blood of this just person: see ye to it. 25 Then answered all the people, and said, His blood be on us, and on our children. 26 Then released he Barabbas unto them: and when he had scourged Jesus, he delivered him to be crucified.